In the pursuit of a healthy and satisfying sex life, many women find themselves grappling with more than just physical and emotional barriers.
Unfair distribution of household responsibilities can be a significant, yet often overlooked, factor affecting a woman’s sexual desire.
This issue not only affects your overall well-being but can also strain relationships and diminish the quality of life.
At Kegelbell, we’re committed to supporting women's sexual health, and part of that mission involves shedding light on the factors that influence it. Recent research has provided critical insights into how inequities in household labor can negatively impact women’s sex drive. We are sponsoring the first month of free reports for the Kegelbell community.
Here’s what you need to know.
The Link Between Household Labor and Sexual Desire
A groundbreaking study by van Anders et al. (2021) delved into the relationship between gender inequity in household chores and women's sexual desire. The findings were revealing:
"Performing a large proportion of household labor was associated with lower desire in women partnered with men... Women who reported that they performed a large proportion of household labor relative to their partner were significantly more likely to perceive their partners as dependent on them to keep the household functioning, and this in turn was associated with significantly lower desire for their partner."
The research highlights two key mechanisms:
- Perceived Partner Dependence: When women feel that their partners rely heavily on them to manage household duties, it blurs the lines between mother and partner roles, which is detrimental to sexual desire.
- Perceived Unfairness: The feeling that the division of labor is unfair also contributes to lower sexual desire. Women who feel burdened by an unequal share of household chores are less likely to feel romantic or sexual interest in their partners.
Why This Matters
Understanding these dynamics is crucial because they underscore that low sexual desire in women is not just an individual issue but a symptom of broader socio-structural problems. The inequities in household labor, deeply rooted in heteronormative expectations, can erode intimacy and desire, leading to dissatisfaction in relationships.
"Low desire in women is a symptom of a broader problem—heteronormativity—that creates inequities in the division of household labor, among other things, and that are related to desire," the study concludes.
Taking Action: Analyzing Household Workload for Fairness
To address this issue, it’s essential to make the invisible visible. At Kegelbell, we’re offering a unique service to help you analyze the household workload for fairness. By generating a detailed report of the work you do and what you bring to the table, we provide a clear, objective basis to discuss and negotiate a fairer distribution of responsibilities.
Kegelbell is partnering with Bonbons™️ to make the special limited time offer! Kegelbell is sponsoring a free report for their community for the first month.
How Our Service Can Help
- Comprehensive Analysis: Our team, led by Dr. Schull, a philosophy professor, and Anugrahit, will evaluate your household workload.
- Quantifying Contributions: We measure the time and effort spent on various tasks, from childcare and elder care to cooking and cleaning.
- Empowering Discussions: Use the report to communicate effectively with your partner or family members about the real value of your contributions.
- Improving Relationships: Achieve a more balanced and equitable home life, which can enhance your relationship quality and sexual health.
Don’t Miss Out on This Opportunity
For a limited time, we’re offering a free report. This is your chance to finally get the recognition you deserve and take steps towards a healthier, more balanced relationship. Contact us today to schedule your assessment.
Kegelbell is partnering with Bonbons™️ to make the special limited time offer!
Kegelbell is sponsoring a month of free reports. Get your before time runs out!
By understanding and addressing the impact of household labor inequities, you can reclaim your sexual health and improve the dynamics of your relationship. Let’s work together to ensure that the value of your contributions is seen, acknowledged, and appreciated.
